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Every day is special if you THINK.

Every moment is memorable if you FEEL.

Every one is unique if you SEE.

Life is beautiful if you LIVE…

Juz give it a thot…-
“Y to flirt..,
Wen u r capable of loving…”;)

Be Soft and cool Like water,
So U can Adjust anywhere in Life
Be hard & attractive Like Diamond,
So No one can play with ur emotions.

When u get little, u want more, when u get more, u desire even more.
But when u lose it, u realize that even ‘Little’ was enough.
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You will find meaning in life only if you create it. It is not lying there somewhere behind the bushes, so you can go and you search a little bit and find it. It is not there like a rock that you will find. It is a poetry to be composed, it is a song to be sung, it is a dance to be danced…!

Agar Kisi Ko Kuch Dena Ho To Use Accha Waqt Aur Dua Do.. Kyu Ki Aap Her Chiz Wapas Le Sakte Ho Magar Kisi Ko Diya Hua Accha Waqt Or Dua Wapis Nahi Le Sakte.

If your eyes are positive, you will like all the people in the World.
But if your Tongue is positive, all the people in the world will like you.

Umbrella Can’t Stop The Rain, But Allows Us To Stand In Rain..Confidence May Not Bring Success,But It Gives the Power To Face Any Challenge..

“Sometimes we struggle through a tasteless coffee till the last sip, then we find sugar lying at the bottom .. that’s life, sweetened but not stirred well.”

“To be the Subject of Jealousy is the sign of Failure in Life, AND To be the Object of Jealousy is the sign of Success in Life.”..:-)

Tears can b trusted more than Smile bcoz u can easily smile at anybody but can’t cry without true feelings…

Jab Zindagi Hasaye Tab Samjha Ki Ache Karmo Ka Fal Hai Or Jab Zindgi Rulaye Tab Samjhna Ki Ache Kam Karne ka waqt Aa Gaya Hai.

LIFE K HR PAL KO KHUSHI SE BEETAO,RONE KA TIME KAHA SIRF MUSKURAO.
CHAHE YE DUNIYA KAHE PAGAL YA AWARA, BAS YAAD RAKHNA- “ZINDEGI NA MILEGI DOBARA”

“You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” ~ Buddha …
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G: God
O: Ofers us
O: Outstanding
D: Devotion 2
M: Make us
O: Obedient &
R: Ready 4
I: Initiate
N: New aim for the
G: Glory of Life

When God pushes u 2 d edge of difficulty Trust him fully Bcoz 2 things can happen Either He’ll catch u when u fall, or He will teach u How to fly

Relationships never die natural death. They are always murdered.

Always listen to your heart. It’s on your Left side but it’s always Right.

Our mouth is like a refrigerator door. If we keep it open, it keeps losing its cooling!

As long as we don’t forgive people who have hurt us, they occupy a rent-free space in our mind!

Half of the problems in life are because we act without thinking And the rest half are because we keep on thinking without acting!

When ‘wellness’ is replaced by ‘we’, even ‘illness’ becomes ‘wellness’.

You can see the beautiful world when only you have a smile on your face;
The tears in your eyes will blur the beauty around you.

Success is like a beautiful lover. It’ll leave us at anytime But failure is like a mother, it’ll teach us some important lessons of life.

Reflection cannot be seen in boiling water. In the same way, truth cannot be seen in a state of anger. One must analyze before one finalize!

A beautiful things starts from heart, All bad things start from mind, Never let the mind rule ur heart

A drop of water in lake, there is no identity, But if it is on leaf of lotus, it shines like pearl, Be in d best place where U can shine.

Discussion is an exchange of knowledge, argument is an exchange of ignorance…!

You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great…!

Its better to look ahead and prepare than to look back and despair…!

Decision is the spark that ignites action. Until a decision is made, nothing happens…
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You will find meaning in life only if you create it. It is not lying there somewhere behind the bushes, so you can go and you search a little bit and find it. It is not there like a rock that you will find. It is a poetry to be composed, it is a song to be sung, it is a dance to be danced…….!

:: Life SMS in English ::

Relationship with a Nice person is like a sugarcane You break it, Crush it,
Squeeze it, …Even beat or grind it, Still u will get only SWEETNESS!

Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.

Be Soft and cool Like water, So U can Adjust anywhere in Life
Be hard & attractive Like Diamond, So No one can play with ur emotions.

golden words of success_see the clock only when you dnt have work, don’t see clock when u r working.,clock is a lock for success.

A beautiful saying:”The past is to prove that no one is perfect and the future is to prove that everyone can change..!”

Be simple but look stylish Be tough but look soft Be tense but look cool Be a beginner but look winner.

Success does not depend on making important decisions quickly, but it depends on taking quick action on important decisions.

The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right time, but also to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.

Nice Life Thought: “If you cant forget some things in life, make sure you dont give yourself time to remember them…!!”

When you see a worthy person, endeavor to emulate him. When you see an unworthy person, examine your inner self…..!
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The man who learns the art of sharing is the richest man in the world. He may be poor, but his inner being is rich…!

LIFE Is Like FLUTE ….
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It May Have Many Holes
And Emptiness
But
If You Work On It Carefully
It Can Play
MAGICAL MELODIES

Thought on lyf- Success in lyf- “U don’t hv 2 b
GREAT 2 START bt u hv 2 START 2 b GREAT..”

Nice life thought- “If u cant 4get something in life
make sure u don’t give yourself time 2 remember them..”

Realization if it occurs at correct time will be so good. Because Realization is not worth If it comes after we lose something….

Live like there is no tomorrow! Constantly move forward and appreciate the motivation for your existence! It has cause! It has meaning! It has reason! Never give up and never look back! Choose to make a meaningful difference in your life and the life of others. Do it every day and DO IT BIG!!!

In life,we all have an unspeakable secret, an irreversible regret, an un-kept promise, an unheard request, an irreplaceable loss, an unreachable dream and an unforgettable first love. Still life is being about happy anyhow because everything in life can be summed up in 4 words “life must goes on”.

I am resourceful and I have the ability to do whatever it takes to succeed, and to support all those whom I love. I enjoy life’s challenges, and I learn from everything that happens in my life. I live each day with passion and power. I feel strong and powerful, happy, and excited. I have tremendous confidence in my talents and my abilities. I meet every situation knowing I am its master. I have deep respect for myself and for everyone I meet each day. I am committed to perform at the best of myself.
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Don’t complicate life:
Missing somebody? – Call
Wanna meet up? – Invite
Wanna be understood? – Explain
Have questions? – Ask
Don’t like something? – Say it
Like something? – State it
Want something? – Ask for it
Love someone? – Tell them
Keep your life simple!

Relationships never die a natural death…
They are always murdered by attitude, behavior, ego and ignorance.

Hands in Hands walk an extra mile,
Remember, On dis earth v r just for a while,
Smile n make every1 smile…
Dats d way 2 live Life in style!

Success is like a train.
It has several compartments Handwork,
Focus, Luck, etc.
but leading all those is the engine of confidence.

Luck decides whom u meet in life,
Ur heart decides whom u want in life,
but,
Time decides who gets to stay in ur life….

“We always Feel that Life of others is Better than us..!!!
But
We Always Forget that We are also Others For
Someone Else…!!!”

Life Is a Football Game, And we are the footballs, Never Mind The Kicks Of People Because Without Kicks We May Not Reach The Goal.

“If Laughter iz The Best Medicine,
Then Why It Gives Pain When Someone Laughs At You..??

Every little smile can touch somebody’s heart..No one is born happy!
But all of us r born with d ability to create happiness.
Be happy…cheers keep smiling:-

Dont spoil what you have, by desiring what you don’t have.
Bcoz what you have now, is one of the many things you once prayed for …
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Life is the art of drawing without any eraser.

So be careful while taking any small decision about valuable page of your life.
Be a good artist of your life.

Waqt Bhi Sikhata Hai,
Aur
Teacher Bhi..
Par Dono Me Fark Hota Hai,
Teacher Sikha Kar Imtihan Leta Hai Aur,
Wqt Imtihan Lekar Sikhata Hai…

“ZINDGI”Ek rat hai..
Jis me na jane kitne khwab haiJo mil gya
wo “APNA” hai..
Jo Tut gya wo
“SPNA” hai.! So
enjoy every moment of Life.

Life is Short,Live it.
Love is Small,Flirt it.
Troubles are Momentary,Face it.
Memories are Sweet,Cherish it.
I’m too Good,Accept it.

Chirag-e-fikr yakenan bujhakar sote h,
magar naseeb ki shma jalakr sote hai,
wo roj khowab me jannat ko dekhte honge,
jo apni maa ke pair ko daba ke sote h.

“Life sometimes takes unknown turn,
Don’t be afraid to travel.
Someday that turn may take you to untouched heights on top of the world..!

Zindagi udas hone ka naam nahi,
Dosti sirf paas hone ka naam nahi,
Agar tum dur rehkar bhi hamein yaad karo,
Is se bada hamare liye koi inaam nahi.

Listen in such a way that people feel compelled to ‘Speak’ to you.
Speak in such a way that people feel compelled to ‘Listen’ to You.
Good day!

83 Positive Quotes About Life – Inspirational Life Quotes

“People don’t value what they don’t earn, pay for, work for or invest in”
Velinda
Be careful what you give to your children without having them earn it. If they are given too much without earning it, they will grow to always expect a hand out. They will not develop into someone who knows how to survive on their own and make life happen. They do not become self-sufficient. One of the best things you can do for your children is teach them how to live life on their own.


There is something so precious about trust. When my daughter gives her cat a bath to get rid of the fleas, he looks up at her with complete trust in his eyes as if to say, “I don’t know why you are doing this horrible thing to me, but I know you love me so I trust you”.
When we violate trust, it is sometimes everlasting and very hard to forgive. Even when we do forgive, it takes forever to rebuild.
Great relationships are built on love, trust, friendship, respect, and communication to name a few. When you violate trust, you tear away at all the values of a relationship.
Think twice before you violating trust in someone you love. Relationships are more important than anything.
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There is something very beautiful that can be found at bottom. Rock bottom is when you are free. There’s nothing left to lose. You’re free to start over. You can do anything you want. You can be anything you want. There’s nothing holding you back. It’s a time for reflection and change. It’s another chance with an open canvas. And there is a whole new life waiting.


We have to remember…
That people who intentionally hurt us are hurting inside
They take it out on us sometimes because we are there
They take it out on anyone to release the pain they are feeling
It’s all about what they are going through and how they choose to release their pain
Understanding where they are coming from helps us
It does not excuse their behavior
It does not mean that you should allow abuse
And you should not react in vengeance
It simply means, to me, that I am glad I am not them


One of these days is not tomorrow.
One of these days is today.
Waiting for one of these days is illusionary.
It is wishful thinking without action, fantasy without intent.
If you wait without action, one of these days will pass you by.
If you take action today, one of these days is here.
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If I can’t live my life the way I want, then what is the point?
If I can’t be who I authentically am, then what’s the point?
If I can’t feel love, compassion and understanding for others, then what’s the point?
If I can’t be loving, gentle and forgiving of myself, then what’s the point?
If I can’t experience beauty, value and meaning from life, then what’s the point?
If I can’t fulfill my desire to help others, then what’s the point?
If I can’t get up each day feeling band new, passionate and full of life then what’s the point?
If I can’t love, be loved and spend my time with people (and animals) I love, then what’s the point?
If I can’t pursue and live my purpose and make a difference, then what’s the point?
The point is these values are what matter to me and what I aspire to do with my life
and I am going to live them because otherwise there is no point.


If you wait until you are ready you will never begin. You can’t constantly be getting ready to get ready.
So the question is not what would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail, but what would you do anyway if you knew you might fail?
What if right now is the perfect moment, even though you may not feel ready? Fear, insecurity, uncertainty, inexperience are not reasons to stop.
Sometimes you only get one chance. What if right now is your one chance. Do you want it to pass you by?
Or would taking a chance be worth the possibility of changing your life?


Dear Future Love of My Life:
I know. I should have written before. Forgive me. But I got the feeling that you were beginning to think I didn’t exist. But I do. And I wanted to let you know that while I might be as elusive as a unicorn grazing in a field of four-leaf clovers, I’m close. I’m around the corner, down the street, on Facebook, in your office, at our local coffee shop, a complete stranger. I made eyes at you once on the subway. I saw you across the room at a party. I swiped you right on Tinder. But it’s not our time yet. And I know you’re wondering why.
It’s really not fair that you’ve had to wait this long, or go on blind dates, endure bad sex, settle for ‘meh’ relationships, feel misunderstood, cry from loneliness, wrap your arms around a pillow as you fall asleep at night. I’m so sorry, my love. You deserve an explanation. So, here it goes. It’s taken me a long time to even admit this to myself much less to you, so please know that everything I’ve written here is true.
The reasons we haven’t met yet, in no particular order:
1. I haven’t thrown out the list of things I think you should be.
2. I’m with the wrong person right now.
3. I’m not ready to be loved unconditionally.
4. Since my life isn’t together, I think you’ll reject me.
5. I still believe that drama is a show of love.
6. I’ve been intentionally keeping my head too busy to think with my heart.
7. I need to date more to understand what I do and don’t like.
8. I won’t be able to appreciate you until life has kicked my ass.
9. I’m too focused on my own needs.
10. I don’t know how to create the feeling of home that lives in my heart.
Clearly, I’m not my best self yet. Or even myself — I’m still figuring out who that is. I’m pretty sure even if we did meet, you wouldn’t like me all that much right now. It’s entirely possible that we did hit it off once, and I left without getting your information; or maybe I did get your number and never called because of any one of the above reasons.
Be patient with me, darling heart. Know that I’m working my way toward you. So don’t spend any more time thinking about where I am or am not. Just keep making your life exciting and full, so when we do finally come together, we can bring each other joy, because we are already happy.
I know it’s taking longer than you’d like. It’s a hell of a lot slower than I could have ever imagined. But I’m here. This is me talking to you. And I’m not going anywhere.
Don’t give up on me.
Yours, in perpetuity,
The Love You Haven’t Met Yet.
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Some thoughts today on Love…Hope it helps…Velinda
Love is life and if you are missing love, you are missing life”
Leo Buscaglia
Be in love with life…experience it all…the newness and the pain. There’s something miraculous about a love for life that brings all we want and need.
If you experience pain…remember the experience, learn the lesson and KNOW that there is new love on the way
Open your heart… a closed heart never finds love
Don’t hold back…vulnerability is not weakness, it is power
Align yourself completely with your uniqueness…your needs, dreams, and desires…and you will find someone who resonates with you
Get into life to feel and experience all the richness that awaits…love is not found sitting in your living room. (And remember, real relationships are not the ones you have on your cell phone or Facebook)
Do what you love…in a job, a hobby, or giving to others…doing what you love makes you feel alive
Because in the end all that matters is that you experienced love
Love is the bridge between you and everything”

There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer – Positive Thought on Life

“There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer.

There is no disease that enough love will not heal.

No door that enough love will not open.

No gulf that enough love will not bridge.

No wall that enough love will not throw down.

And no sin that enough love will not redeem.
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It makes no difference how deeply seated may be the trouble. How hopeless the outlook. How muddled the tangle. How great the mistake.

A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.

And if you could love enough you would be the happiest and most powerful person in the world.”

There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer.

There is no disease that enough love will not heal.

No door that enough love will not open.

No gulf that enough love will not bridge.

No wall that enough love will not throw down.
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And no sin that enough love will not redeem.

It makes no difference how deeply seated may be the trouble.

How hopeless the outlook.

How muddled the tangle.

How great the mistake.

A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all.

And if you could love enough, you would be the happiest and most powerful person in the world.
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Never ever sacrifice the people who matter for anything of lesser importance…
not for a day, for a moment of instant gratification,
not for anything that would forever jeopardize your relationship with that person.
In the end you lose the world for something you could live without
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People talk about the reality of their life as if it is important. And we want you to understand, it’s only the temporary indicator. Do you go to the gas station—your gas gauge is on empty—do you go to the gas station and look at your gas gauge in horror? “How did this happen? [Fun] Why, why, why did this happen to me?” Do you lay your head on the steering wheel and just sob? “Oh, look what it’s come to. [Fun] I’m finished. I’ve lived all of this life, and look where I am.”
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Choose carefully who you associate with.
Because…
You rarely rise above the people you spend the most time with.
Your dreams and vision of life may be completely different from theirs.
Instead, surround yourself with people who will support and inspire your dreams.
“You become the 5 people you spend the most time with” Tony Robbins.
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Whenever there is a problem, repeat the following affirmation over and over:
It will create miracles in your life.
All is well.
Everything is working out for my highest good.
Out of this situation only good will come.
I am safe. Louise Hay.
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“If you want to change who you are,
begin by changing the size of your dream.
Even if you are broke,
it does not cost you anything to dream of being rich.
Many poor people are poor because they have given up on dreaming.
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Before you assume, learn the facts

Before you judge, understand why

Before you hurt someone, feel
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Before you speak, think
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No matter what your disappointments or challenges from the past may have been, This is a Brand New Day.

Dream bigger, try again, have faith, envision your life the way you want it to be. The bigger your vision, the bigger your life

We settle for what is as though we have no power. We don’t dream beyond our environment and settle for a habitual way of thinking, believing or behaving and living. That may be fine for some, but too small for you.

Surround yourself with your dreams and an atmosphere of success. Vision can be limited by the wrong environment. Associate with people who are big thinkers and big dreamers as they will support your vision. People who build you up not tear you down. People who have an open mind not small thoughts.

Sometimes it takes years to realize your dream. This is the hardest part. This is the time where faith and courage are tested. Remember it’s a big world out there full of opportunity and abundance. It’s with those first steps, in the times of growth and waiting, that the seeds are planted.

In the end you are only limited by your own thoughts. You have to make your dreams and visions bigger than your fears and have the courage to see them through.

So today instead of just dreaming your dream, start living it.
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The best things come to those who don’t give up.
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Stop allowing your fears to rule your life.
Life is about lessons and fear is a part of that…perhaps only lessons you didn’t learn well.
But fears will hold you back and keep you a prisoner in your own world.
They are a story you tell yourself that you have accepted whether there is any truth or not.
The answer to your fears is to tell yourself a different story…one that says
“I don’t want to be afraid anymore, and I will not be dominated by fear”

Happy Holi 20❶❼ Wishes SMS in Hindi

Holi is the Indian Festival of Colours. Holi celebration (Basanta Utsav,  होली )is done all over India with great joy. All amazing Holi Wishes, Holi SMS, Happy Holi Greetings, Happy Holi SMS in Hindi, Happy Holi 2017 Wishes SMS in Hindi, Happy Holi messages SMS, Happy holi in hindi Text, Holi Shayari are available on this site. you can easily download all the Holi Wishes SMS 2017 from here.

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Happy Holi 2016 Wishes SMS in Hindi
Happy Holi 2017 Wishes SMS in Hindi

Bright colors,
water balloons,
lavish gujiyas and melodious songs
are the ingredients of perfect Holi.
Wish you a very happy and wonderful Holi.

Happy Holi Wishes in Advance

You can choose to be happy or
sad and whichever you choose
that is what you get.
No one is really responsible
to make someone else happy,
no matter what most people have
been taught and accept as true.

Happy Holi SMS in Advance

0 days
312 hours
18720 mins..
1123200 seconds…
are left…. I think i am the first person to
wish U HAPPY HOLI.

Holi Wishes SMS for Girlfriend

Apun wishing you a wonderful,
Super-duper, Zabardast,
Xtra-badhiya, Xtra special,
Ekdum mast and dhinchak,
Bole to ekdum jhakaas
“Happy Holi”.

Happy Holi Messages SMS

Holi ki mauj masti mai
chipi hai mithas
rang aur gulal mai chuapa hai dher sara pyar….
Happy holi…
holi wishes sms in hindi

Holi Celebration Messages

Pichkari ki Dhar,
Gulal ki bauchar,
Apno ka pyar,
Yahi hai yaaron holi ka tyohar.
Happy Holi!!!!

Happy Holi Greetings in Marathi

Saade rang ko galti se aap naa kora samjho,
Isi mey samaaye indradhanushi saaton rang,
Jo dikhe aapko zindagi saadagi bhari kisi ki,
To aap yun samjho satrangi hai duniya usiki,
Holi aayi satrangi rango ki bouchar laayi,
Dher saari mithai aur mitha mitha pyar laayi,
Aap ki zindagi ho mithe pyar aur khusiyon se bhari,
Jisme samaaye saaton rang yahi shubhkamna hai hamaari.

Happy Holi 2017 Wishes

Apun wishing you a wonderful,
Super-duper,
Zabardast,
Xtra-badhiya,
Xtra special,
Ekdum mast and dhinchak,
Bole to ekdum jhakaas
“Happy Holi”.

Happy Holi SMS in Hindi Font

T I T A N I C
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Rakhlo HOLI ka gift he
Next time tajmahal bhej denge.
Is bar thodi tangi he……….

Happy Holi Wishes SMS 2017

Auspicious red.
Sunkissed gold.
Soothing silver.
Pretty purple.
Blissful blue.
Forever green.
I wish u and all family
D most colorful Holi………….

Holi Festival of Colours

Dil Sapno se HOUSEFUL hai,
Poore honge wo doubtful hai,
Is Duniya me har Chiz Wonderful hai,
Par Zindagi aap jaise logo se HI COLOURFUL hai… Happy Holi

Holi Celebration Pictures

Chandan ki khushbu, Resham ka haar!
fagun ki fhuhaar, rango ki bhahar!
Dil ki ummide apno ka pyaar
Mubaarak ho apako “HOLI KA TYOHAAR

Happy Holi SMS in English

Holi man bhedo ko mitane ka saar hai,
Holi dushmano ko gale lagane ka tyohar hai,
Holi naa khele jo manhoos,
Unki jeevan mein haar hai.

Happy Holi Greetings for Family

Kamna hai ki fagun
ka ye rangeen utsav
Aapke jeevan me dher sari
Khushiyan laye..
Holi ki hardik shubhkamnaye!

Happy Holi SMS in Hindi

Aise manana holi ka tyohar, Pichkari se barse sirf pyar,
Yahi mausam hai apno se gale milne ka,
To gulal lekar ho jao taiyar. Happy Holi

Happy Holi Wishes

Makki ki Roti, Nimbu ka Aachar,
Suraj Ki Kirne, Khushiyo ki Bahar,
Chand Ki Chandi, Apno ka Pyar,
Mubarak Ho Aapko, HOLI ka Tyohar

Live Your Life The Way You Want To Quotes

There is something so precious about trust. When my daughter gives her cat a bath to get rid of the fleas, he looks up at her with complete trust in his eyes as if to say, “I don’t know why you are doing this horrible thing to me, but I know you love me so I trust you”.
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When we violate trust, it is sometimes everlasting and very hard to forgive. Even when we do forgive, it takes forever to rebuild.
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Great relationships are built on love, trust, friendship, respect, and communication to name a few. When you violate trust, you tear away at all the values of a relationship.
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Think twice before you violating trust in someone you love. Relationships are more important than anything.
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There is something very beautiful that can be found at bottom. Rock bottom is when you are free. There’s nothing left to lose. You’re free to start over. You can do anything you want. You can be anything you want. There’s nothing holding you back. It’s a time for reflection and change. It’s another chance with an open canvas. And there is a whole new life waiting.
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One of these days is not tomorrow.
One of these days is today.
Waiting for one of these days is illusionary.
It is wishful thinking without action, fantasy without intent.
If you wait without action, one of these days will pass you by.
If you take action today, one of these days is here.
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We have to remember…
That people who intentionally hurt us are hurting inside
They take it out on us sometimes because we are there
They take it out on anyone to release the pain they are feeling
It’s all about what they are going through and how they choose to release their pain
Understanding where they are coming from helps us
It does not excuse their behavior
It does not mean that you should allow abuse
And you should not react in vengence
It simply means, to me, that I am glad I am not them
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If I can’t live my life the way I want, then what is the point?
If I can’t be who I authentically am, then what’s the point?
If I can’t feel love, compassion and understanding for others, then what’s the point?
If I can’t be loving, gentle and forgiving of myself, then what’s the point?
If I can’t experience beauty, value and meaning from life, then what’s the point?
If I can’t fulfill my desire to help others, then what’s the point?
If I can’t get up each day feeling band new, passionate and full of life then what’s the point?
If I can’t love, be loved and spend my time with people (and animals) I love, then what’s the point?
If I can’t pursue and live my purpose and make a difference, then what’s the point?
The point is these values are what matter to me and what I aspire to do with my life
and I am going to live them
because otherwise there is no point.
Velinda
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I know. I should have written before. Forgive me. But I got the feeling that you were beginning to think I didn’t exist. But I do. And I wanted to let you know that while I might be as elusive as a unicorn grazing in a field of four-leaf clovers, I’m close. I’m around the corner, down the street, on Facebook, in your office, at our local coffee shop, a complete stranger. I made eyes at you once on the subway. I saw you across the room at a party. I swiped you right on Tinder. But it’s not our time yet. And I know you’re wondering why.
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It’s really not fair that you’ve had to wait this long, or go on blind dates, endure bad sex, settle for ‘meh’ relationships, feel misunderstood, cry from loneliness, wrap your arms around a pillow as you fall asleep at night. I’m so sorry, my love. You deserve an explanation. So, here it goes. It’s taken me a long time to even admit this to myself much less to you, so please know that everything I’ve written here is true.
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The reasons we haven’t met yet, in no particular order:
1. I haven’t thrown out the list of things I think you should be.
2. I’m with the wrong person right now.
3. I’m not ready to be loved unconditionally.
4. Since my life isn’t together, I think you’ll reject me.
5. I still believe that drama is a show of love.
6. I’ve been intentionally keeping my head too busy to think with my heart.
7. I need to date more to understand what I do and don’t like.
8. I won’t be able to appreciate you until life has kicked my ass.
9. I’m too focused on my own needs.
10. I don’t know how to create the feeling of home that lives in my heart.
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Clearly, I’m not my best self yet. Or even myself — I’m still figuring out who that is. I’m pretty sure even if we did meet, you wouldn’t like me all that much right now. It’s entirely possible that we did hit it off once, and I left without getting your information; or maybe I did get your number and never called because of any one of the above reasons.
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Be patient with me, darling heart. Know that I’m working my way toward you. So don’t spend any more time thinking about where I am or am not. Just keep making your life exciting and full, so when we do finally come together, we can bring each other joy, because we are already happy.
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I know it’s taking longer than you’d like. It’s a hell of a lot slower than I could have ever imagined. But I’m here. This is me talking to you. And I’m not going anywhere.
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If you wait until you are ready you will never begin. You can’t constantly be getting ready to get ready.
So the question is not what would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail, but what would you do anyway if you knew you might fail?
What if right now is the perfect moment, even though you may not feel ready? Fear, insecurity, uncertainty, inexperience are not reasons to stop.
Sometimes you only get one chance. What if right now is your one chance. Do you want it to pass you by?
Or would taking a chance be worth the possibility of changing your life?
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Attitude can make it or break it for you
Why would anyone want to live thinking negative thoughts everyday?
So if you live every day with a negative attitude,
changing to a positive attitude is life transforming
I guarantee it! So if you want a life significantly better than what you have,
try changing this one thing…ATTITUDE
and watch the miracles happen
Remember: You have control over your mind and your life.

If my writing comes to a halt, I head to the shops: I find them very inspirational. And if I get into real trouble with my plot, I go out for a pizza with my husband.

If my writing comes to a halt, I head to the shops: I find them very inspirational. And if I get into real trouble with my plot, I go out for a pizza with my husband.

If my writing comes to a halt, I head to the shops: I find them very inspirational. And if I get into real trouble with my plot, I go out for a pizza with my husband.
If my writing comes to a halt, I head to the shops: I find them very inspirational. And if I get into real trouble with my plot, I go out for a pizza with my husband.

And above all things, never think that you’re not good enough yourself. A man should never think that. My belief is that in life people will take you at your own reckoning.

And above all things, never think that you’re not good enough yourself. A man should never think that. My belief is that in life people will take you at your own reckoning.

And above all things, never think that you're not good enough yourself. A man should never think that. My belief is that in life people will take you at your own reckoning.
And above all things, never think that you’re not good enough yourself. A man should never think that. My belief is that in life people will take you at your own reckoning.

Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible’!

Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible’!

Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!
Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible’!

If someone says ‘grunge’ or ‘punk,’ you know what the sound is, but if you say ‘No Wave,’ it’s kind of mysterious. That was the most interesting part and should have been the most inspirational thing about it… here’s this collective sonic insanity, and none of it sounds anything alike.

If someone says ‘grunge’ or ‘punk,’ you know what the sound is, but if you say ‘No Wave,’ it’s kind of mysterious. That was the most interesting part and should have been the most inspirational thing about it… here’s this collective sonic insanity, and none of it sounds anything alike.

If someone says 'grunge' or 'punk,' you know what the sound is, but if you say 'No Wave,' it's kind of mysterious. That was the most interesting part and should have been the most inspirational thing about it... here's this collective sonic insanity, and none of it sounds anything alike.
If someone says ‘grunge’ or ‘punk,’ you know what the sound is, but if you say ‘No Wave,’ it’s kind of mysterious. That was the most interesting part and should have been the most inspirational thing about it… here’s this collective sonic insanity, and none of it sounds anything alike.

A man has to learn that he cannot command things, but that he can command himself that he cannot coerce the wills of others, but that he can mold and master his own will: and things serve him who serves Truth; people seek guidance of him who is master of himself.

A man has to learn that he cannot command things, but that he can command himself that he cannot coerce the wills of others, but that he can mold and master his own will: and things serve him who serves Truth; people seek guidance of him who is master of himself.

A man has to learn that he cannot command things, but that he can command himself; that he cannot coerce the wills of others, but that he can mold and master his own will: and things serve him who serves Truth; people seek guidance of him who is master of himself.
A man has to learn that he cannot command things, but that he can command himself; that he cannot coerce the wills of others, but that he can mold and master his own will: and things serve him who serves Truth; people seek guidance of him who is master of himself.

Keep your face always toward the sunshine – and shadows will fall behind you.

Keep your face always toward the sunshine – and shadows will fall behind you.

Keep your face always toward the sunshine - and shadows will fall behind you.
Keep your face always toward the sunshine – and shadows will fall behind you.